It's funny, when I was younger I was always more comfortable with the idea of having children than getting married, and I saw myself marrying a woman more than I could a man. But my partner of 9 years is male, we're gearing up to get hitched, and I don't plan on having kids for at least another 4 years....
![[identity profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/openid.png){kind=small}
![[community profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/community.png){kind=small}
no subject
Woah there; are you jumping from marriage to babies? Cause it sounds like it!
no subject
no subject
If I don't want babies that means nothing about if I want marriage.
The economic cost of a child and the economic cost of a marriage are unequal.
no subject
So here I am.