Even I try to be open...but I gets scared for my safeties...you just can't tell with some people. I've been in some hairy situations as it is. Someone once raped me in that "you're a freak and this will correct you" kind of way. Once I got cornered by some hombres in a train station men's bathroom in Cali. Luckily a security guard came by and my skinny self ran off.

Bathrooms are the worst thing, the bane of my existence.