[identity profile] wight1984.livejournal.com 2013-03-29 01:30 pm (UTC)(link)
The issue there is that you do still have the chance to choose, just what options you're choosing between are limited.

I think there's a mistake in seeing this issue as split between 'free choice' and 'no free choice'. There's a grey area in-between the two.

I rather think that the choice to have sex needs to be as far outside of that grey area as possible, which means that it's unethical to pressure people into sex. In extreme cases, use of pressure may constitute rape.