It can also be spun however you want. You are spinning it now adding and then dropping elements to fit your narrative. I use you own words and I am spinning somehow.

Adults are presumed competent to consent. This presumption can be rebutted, for instance in circumstances of mental illness or other incompetence (i.e. intoxication or drugged).

People have drunk sex all the time. Some regret this decision. It doesn't mean that it is rape.